Parents can your Teens and young Adult confidently share their emotions with you?

Parents when last did you pay attention to your Teenager/Young Adult emotional needs?

Can they confidently tell you their deepest feeling? 
They are meant to find solace in someone who care to listen and understand them. You need to be that person  if you really love them. 


 Most of them end up in the wrong hands.  
Most of our Teens/Adults are suffering from emotional trauma.
I weep when I hear some heartbreaking stories of our beloved Teens/young Adults, each time I get a  call from most of them. After they read my sex Education book Virgin super model.

Thanking me for inspiring them positively.

 I can really relate because I wore that shoe then,  so I know exactly where it pinches!๐Ÿ˜ญ

Countdown to my Virgin super model Sex Education book turned movie set to premier on

16th july my Birthday ๐ŸŽ‚๐ŸŽ

I dedicate this Birthday and Movie premier To our Teens and young Adults. Our future Leaders.


ย Gender preference, mostly in Africa.


So what?

I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.
I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.

Because I am a woman, I don’t have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality…..
Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ”it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him”
I cheat, and I am called a whore, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irresponsible mother.
So I am sent packing, from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on my head. I am henceforth forbidden from seeing my two older children, I’m lucky to be allowed to go with my little one still suckling on my left breast. Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now, my new name is “after-three”, because I am a woman.
He is 28 and runs a company. He’s tagged wonderful, hardworking, focused, career oriented, successful at a very young age.
I am 28 and I run a company ” Hmmmm, she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priorities right, a hustler, loves money, let her go and get a husband oh”

And I wonder if being successful has anything to do with a person’s gender.
Because I am a woman,

I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy, I cannot be financially buoyant, professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man beside me.
Then I am tagged a generous leg opener, “a runs girl”. They never see the possibility that I actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where I am.

Because I am a woman.
A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he’s being praised and congratulated for moving on, after all life is for the living.
A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, “ahhh! so early? Are u sure she wasn’t sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. She’s a witch! ” Because she’s a woman.
Because I am a woman, this post will be considered controversial, and everyone will try to correct me.

But don’t forget, that I am a woman and it does not make me less human!!!

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Corruption is a vampire

Do you know what came to my small head. 

Phew! That NGO’s and private people would just come together and  donate food stuff to people in different designated area and it will be huge. Its going to happen in every area in the country and even CNN will carry it, it’s a form of voiceless and peaceful protest.  Maybe then the government will understand we are in a state of emergency and hunger prevails.
Maybe then they stop all these there nonsense fights at the Assemblies and co and there disappearing acts when others in the world see how impoverished a supposed rich country is. The ‘Giant of Africa’. Do you know the Telecommunication companies and Banks are sacking people almost on daily basis?
Someone died of medical negligence yesterday not even of the disease that should have killed her, no equipment in the hospitals, few medical personals, no jobs, even those with skills have no capital to start with. Yet they breed and drink corruption and even the smallest units in the government offices follow suit. 
The problem is our ‘it is well’ spirit, our ‘amuwa Olorun’ spirit,we makes jokes at everything while they sliced our throats.Yes, I love our comedy spirit,it keeps us going but sometimes we need to cut it to face the issues squarely. We accept everything they throw  it at us and we move on.

Even the last corrupt leaders are now our mentors and advisers. I shake my head. I hate delving into politics. But this morning I just woke up in anger. 

Corruption is a vampire eating the citizens of our beloved Nation.

The Leaders enjoy the national cake while the masses languish in misery. 

Something needs to be done.

Movie premier/Birthday

We live in a world where majority of teens and young adults lack little or no knowledge about the consequence sex before marriage, non protective sex most of them get pregnant from age 14 -16 years. While STD is very common, this incidents are one of the major problems teenagers/young Adults  go through around the world, many die in the process of child bearing, because some of them are too young to undergo labor pain. 

Its our duty to inform/ impact our Teens/ young Adults, knowledge regarding sex Education for a brighter and successful future!

Virgin Super model is a book๐Ÿ“š Authored by Me Uju Christy Okoye

 Turned Feature Film, ๐Ÿ’ฝ Set to premier on 16th of July my Birthday. ๐ŸŽ‚๐ŸŽ

Save the date! 

Together we can, Educate, Inform and impact our Teens/young Adults , positvely because they are our future leaders.

Best regards!

Who are mine? (Describe your self)

If your not the one wearing the shoe please do not try to decribe how it pinch.

Because you will likely end up being presumptiuos and judgmental which kills  Happiness in human existence. 
Often people make mistake telling a story of someone they know nothing about””'” it’s Turn off to a Happy life because you will end up  being a gossip or tatafo. .lol I’m sure if you really want to have a positive outlook in life you don’t want to be in amibo category. 
Being able to describe your self will let people know, who you are, your vision statement and Can boldly say I know what she/he represent.
 Let me go first.๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡ Drop yours at the comment.

I’m Uju Christy Okoye
Author/Travel /Tv Production, Achor of Jidekaiji TvShow.Business Mogul,  entrepreneur with a vision statement  With God sky is starting point!
I’m spiritual, Prayerful, Classy, homely, Great in kitchen,bedroom & office section. (As married woman)

I love to be vibrant, honest, open minded and happy. I love women who empower and build each other, My turn off are arrogant, pride, fake and judgemental people, my turn on are, Honesty, selfless act, determined, integrity and Happy atmosphere. 

I’mpossible is not in my DNA

I can do all things through Christ that strengthen me.

I’m possible! Because I serve a God of possibility. 

I’m passionate about giving back, touching lives, seeing people Happy, encourage and support valuable vision handwork/ talents and living my life to the fulness fabulously and best of all I’m Save by God almighty.

Most beautiful face of Nigeria 2017 season 4

Miss Edo took the crown of Most beautiful face in Nigeria MBFN 2017. Season4.  With a brand new car,15 million worth  of Land at Abuja ,ambassador trip to Toronto, and face of Classic make up USA 2017.
Legendary,  Ejike Asiegwu, Miss Nig Int Culture 2016, and many Others,  grace the occasion. 

Jidekaiji TV Show With Lolo Nchee Ejiofor & Uju C Okoye.@ Bespoke Event Center, Lekki Lagos.


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Child Abuse Victim? Move Beyond for the best.


I’m a victim of child Abuse, lack of sex Education from my parents when growing up. 

I learnt my lesson in a hard way,  I have being emotional traumatized, Writing and Authored Sex Education book title Virgin super model,  I’m about to premier  movie of  VIRGIN SUPER MODEL (The movie Thriller)

I want to use this medium to encourage anyone who have experienced child abuse that your not alone, bottling your emotions up will not solve the problem, get up, dress up and show up. You are stronger than you think.

For our mothers/ fathers the time is now to create awareness,  guide our teens/young adults  to be in the right track and become the super individual they are meant to be.

Given back positive outlook on life and creating awareness on sex Education is my  priority,  my daughter,  all the teens/ young Adults deserve the best Information to be their best.
 My book Virgin super model turned movie will save a lot of teens and young adults from getting into trouble, for instance un-wanted pregnancy, drugs, alcohol and death due to abortion and child-birth. I lived in Angola, South Africa also in Nigeria,  and most part of the world where majority of teens and young adults lack little or no knowledge about the consequence of non protective sex if they are unable to abstain before marriage, most of them get pregnant from age 13-14 and 15 years. This incident is a major problem teens adults go through around the world, many die in the process of child bearing, because some of them are too young to undergo labor pain.
 Most of them tested HIV Positive without proper treatment, while STDs happen often.
 Many teens and young adults suffer because of lack of information and support from family and society or pressure to have sex just because some of their friends are doing it, some have multiple partners at the same time thinking is fun and normal.
The young adults and singles have little or no idea about birth-control pill, sadly including their parents. Though this pills is mostly applicable in western world.

I’m I the only one who has suffered child Abuse?

You are super individual, you don’t need human validation.  Your in this world to make a difference, help and save our daughters and young Adults to be the best they can.